What is a healthy relationship???
Different people define relationships in different ways. But in order for a relationship to be healthy, it needs a few key ingredients.
Always remember - relationships change as people grow and develop. With communication this could be in a positive direction. However things may change in a way you are not conformable with, if this happens you can always talk to someone.

The following are some key aspects of a healthy relationship:
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Open and honest communication
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Freedom to hold own and different opinions
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Allows for individuality and celebrating this within the relationship
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Bringing out each others best qualities
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Affection and closeness
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Its okay to argue, but not to feel afraid during an argument
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You are not being forced, coerced or unduly influenced into using illegal substances, alcohol or criminal behaviour
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Acknowledgement of own behaviour and does not blame partner for ones own behaviour or reaction
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Does not check mobile phones, messages or emails
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Encorages relationships with friends and family
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Does not discourage your freedom of choice when it comes to getting dressed, wearing make-up or how you spend your time and money
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Does not play mind games
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Believes in equality

I am LGBTQ+. Is my relationship healthy?
You know your relationship is probably healthy if your partner:
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Respects your chosen gender pronouns or name
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Gives you space to hang out with your friends and family without thinking you are cheating
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Doenst take your money or tell you what to buy
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Never threatens to 'out' you to people
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Never tells you you're not a real lesbian, gay man, trans-person, or whatever you identify as because you don't act (or have sex) they way that they want you to
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Doesn't try to limit your contact with the LGBTQ+ scene
This information is up to date as of 28th March 2019 and will not be updated soon